The month of March is designated as Women’s History Month. In celebration of both Women’s history month and International Women’s Day on March 9th, I was honored to be featured by Aging But Dangerous, a group of International women over the age of 55 years old on Instagram. And, I was asked to write down my thoughts on “aging dangerously”. Many of you who know me personally, know that my life isn’t really lived too dangerously, however, I didn’t back down. Below are my thoughts on Aging Dangerously.
Defining who I am
I clearly remember turning 40 and thinking that it was the best time of my life. Ha! That was twenty plus years ago and I didn’t know better. I’ve realized that now is the time to embrace myself and who I am! I’m a woman who has hobbies, true lifelong girlfriends, loves to golf, and is obsessed with fashion. Back then if I was asked about myself, I would have said I was a mother, a wife, a daughter and a caregiver.
“I thought more about what I did and my responsibilities, rather than who I really was.”
At the age of 63, I see myself with more confidence and a clearer perception of who I am. This is not about defying age. At this age, more than half of our life is over. It’s time to make the most of life. If we don’t start enjoying ourselves now, it may be too late. With no health guarantees, we should appreciate life every single day as a gift.
How I’ve learned to live dangerously
I take chances. I step outside of my comfort zone. Now is the time to invest in improving your quality of life. Take time for self-care and finding joy in everything we do. I understand that we all have diverse situations that may prevent us from fully enjoying ourselves the way we may have envisioned. However, there will never be a perfect time. Like it or not, these are our golden years.
I’ve had my share of ups and downs but I choose to live my live with a positive mindset. I do not want to be defined by circumstances. I want to be recognized as someone that inspires and impresses upon others that there is always something to be grateful for.
It may not be easy to be the best version of yourself everyday but that’s ok, we just need to remember to always be kind to ourselves
Hi Nancy! Lovely blog post. I agree, take chances. Now is the time to go exploring and try new things. And, yes, be gentle with ourselves. Everything doesn’t have to happen all at once!
Thank you Barbie,
I’ve grown more and more confident with age and not as much concerned about what people think.
My Best,
Nancy
Putting yourself out there on a blog and sharing ideas can be seen as dangerous! When you share your creative thoughts, you are being vulnerable. We – your readers – appreciate it! We love it!
Hello Nancy,
Thank you very much for your thoughts. Little by little I’m gaining confidence to open up to my followers about myself. Your right it is not easy because you want to feel excepted and liked and not remembered by your flaws or mishaps. I hope that I gain more courage as time goes on.
My Best,
Nancy
You’re a lovely role model, Nancy. I love your positive attitude.
That’s so sweet of you to say! Thank you very much for following my blog, I’m so happy we have become acquainted.
My Best,
Nancy